Ending the Cycle

Cycle One

• boy pursues girl
• girl intrigued by boy (and all his falsities) and spends time with him
• boy too intense too soon, relationship evolves too quickly
• girl flattered by intensity
• girl mistakes emotional and relationship problems of boy as true feelings for her
• boy leaves girl abrubtly, claiming "not ready to be in a relationship" as excuse
• girl feels at fault

Cycle Two (six months later)

• see Cycle One (unfortunate, but true... HCD is probably a goner, just like Plan B.)

Cycle Three

• girl meets boy at bar after intense eye contact
• girl and boy dance
• boy calls girl the next day
• girl invites boy over for dinner
• boy eats dinner and leaves after receiving goodbye hug
• girl waits for boy to call for second date

This was Monday... hopefully he'll call soon and we can have that second date. *satisfied sigh* It feels good to do things right.